4.12.2009

A post about posting



I'm having trouble articulating this next post topic, so I figured I'd throw it up here for now and let it simmer for another day...

The topic on the table is the inevitable argument that every couple about to have a wedding encounters: the "it's just one day!" versus "we only get married once!" argument. Perhaps it is had only internally to each individual person, or perhaps it's the case that there is one partner on either side of this issue. In either case, there must be some kind of happy medium we can reach, whereby we can be guiltless in planning a really cool party to celebrate our marriage, yet not go so far out that it leaves us in crazy debt for the first 5 years of said marriage.

More on this to come....

4.07.2009

Oh, the food you will eat!




When you stay at Secrets Maroma Beach! (almost rhymes, almost)

When I first started reading the TripAdvisor.com forums on SMB, I initially got sick and tired of all the photos that were posted by reviewers - always of the exact same things. Last night, I took some time to review the photos again, and found quite a few that involved eating and/or drinking...which makes a little sense, considering the fact that it is an all-inclusive resort. After collecting the photos, I was not only excited, but I was hungry. So, I thought I'd share them here, just to give you all a 'taste' (hee hee) of the resort's fare. Enjoy!




3.24.2009

Found Shoes and Shirts

In a stroke of luck, this past weekend we wandered into Macys and stumbled across the most perfect Cubavera shirt (though at first we didn't want a short-sleeved shirt, but then realized it would be more comfortable for the men...in Mexico...in August...). This shirt suits our purpose perfectly and will look fabulous on all our guys.

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I was inspired to find the guys' shoes as well (we decided to buy all of the guys, including the officiant, matching flip flop sandals) after finding the perfect shirts, so after quite a few minutes (okay fine, hours) of searching online, I found a pair of leather, handsewn, dark brown (walnut) sandals at Sierra Trading Post - and they had all of the sizes I needed (finding 7 pair of the same shoes is amazingly difficult, even on the internet). So we ordered them - received them today (a 2-day turnaround, amazing!), and the FI loves them (he got a pair too)!
They came with a sandal bag and were very well-packaged - I would highly recommend Jeffrey Fitzhugh (the maker) and Sierra Trading Post (the shipper) to anyone. What a wonderfully productive week!

Progress!


I am so happy to write this post. It seems we may have found a suit for the FI to wear to his own wedding - hooray! We originally decided to visit Banana Republic because of past success in purchasing great-fitting, good quality suit wear there. However, this season, BR decided to implement the 'noticeable stitch' on the lapels of all its suit jacket (yack). We randomly decided to hop into Express MEN and wouldn't you know, we found this gorgeous white/ivory suit jacket and matching pants there. Ordered his size via the internet, and voila - we love it! I can envision an aqua blue handkerchief inserted into the chest pocket of the jacket...and a simple white collared shirt underneath it, with just 2 buttons un-done. (The FI still maybe wants to wear a tie though, so I'm holding back on my dreamy visions for now.) Here are a few photos of the suit. I love the idea of both of us being in all white, it's elegant and casual at the same time.

3.17.2009

Thoughts on Veils

One element of the wedding attire I never thought I would think too much about: the veil. I figured all veils were created somewhat equally, and that there would not be too much pain or consideration in the process of finding a veil that would 'go' with my gown.

Obviously....I was so very, very wrong.

So after some botched attempts at veils - I ordered one off Ebay at the same time I bought my dress, and while it is gorgeous and beautiful and wonderous, I'm afraid it just isn't quite what I had in mind (after seeing it on with my dress). Who knew I had something in mind at all?

I traversed through cyberspace to find out how other brides have chosen their veils. Most of them have indicated that they always knew they wanted a 2-tier illusion tulle veil in the color of their dress (2 tiers so they could wear one of them as a blusher, aka, the part that hangs over the bride's face), or that they always knew they didn't want a veil at all. I read about destination brides in particular, and those getting married on the somewhat-windy beaches of Mexico had this to say: find a veil with some weight on the ends, and get one that is at least waist-length, so it isn't always blowing in and around your face, so as to prevent seeing yourself fighting with it in every single photo or video clip. A-ha, good advice! So, I began the hunt for a veil that meets these specifications.

I found one right away and thought, I better just order the darn thing. Then I realized the veil itself cost just under $200. ARE YOU KIDDING?! For a piece of tulle, that crap they put in icky prom dresses, and on prom tables and chairs, and around wedding arches? It was then that I decided to search a bit differently - I typed in "45'' bridal veil ivory" and wouldn't you know, the wonderful handmade-seller site Etsy.com came up in the first page. Someone out there was making bridal veils at a fraction of the cost of the one that I liked, and still had the style that I just loved. Stay tuned for more on whether I bought the veil or not...and how it looks with the dress!

*Photo courtesy of ETSY seller bellabridalveils

3.10.2009

Don't Drink the Water

Yes, it's the name of a Dave Matthews song, but it's also a pretty important rule to remember when traveling through Mexico. A friend was kind enough to share some suggestions about "things your guests might want to know" after a recent trip to Mexico. For example: don't drink the water, and if there are large bottles of water sitting on your bathroom counter at your resort, use those for brushing your teeth and rinsing your mouth. I've heard people say they used the resort water to brush their teeth and didn't become ill, and have heard still others say they became ill because they drank a beverage that had ice cubes in it.

Another potentially strange-to-some-Americans tip is this: look for signs that indicate whether or not you can flush your used toilet paper. It sounds gross to a certain degree, but the sewer systems in Mexico are different than those here in the U.S., and some cannot handle paper or other objects (including feminine products). Public areas are likely to have signs posted to this effect, but many resorts will not - when in doubt, just ask someone. Some water systems go to the ocean and it's always nice to do your part in keeping the environment a bit cleaner. As a side note, it might be a good idea to bring a deodorizer or air freshener for the bathroom in your room, as the bathroom inevitably smells like...a bathroom. :o)

Be prepared to be hassled by timeshare agents arriving at the Cancun airport, particularly after you have cleared customs and are making your way to the curb to find your resort taxi. They will ask you questions that make it appear as though they are your resort's taxi service, only to suck you into signing up for a timeshare presentation in exchange for something cool-sounding.
For example, my friend and her husband ended up sitting for about 5-6 hours in a presentation (always go to the early morning presentations so you can have the rest of the day for fun) but got tickets to Xcaret and Xel-ha out of it - about a $200 value. So just decide in advance whether you'd like to be party to something like this for the sometimes-cool freebies, and keep your head low until you get outside of the airport if you are not interested. Your resort taxi/transfer service will always be outside the airport, and will almost always have a sign with either your last name or resort name on it. Accept no imitations.

And speaking of airports....the ride to the resort from the airport is usually anywhere between 20 and 40 minutes. The lines at immigration take approximately 30-45 minutes, depending on the day and time you arrive. So - if you need to use a restroom, do so before you get in the car or shuttle bus. Your bladder will thank you.

All for now...more tips to come!

3.01.2009

Maroma Beach = "Most Romantic Beach"

New SMB Wedding Photos


Thanks to the Best Destination Wedding forum that I follow, I was able to grab a link for a full set of photos from a wedding recently held at Secrets Maroma Beach (SMB). It's pretty exciting to see some more of the details of the resort itself, as well as the possible wedding locations. Check it out!

Wedding: Gerald and Julie - del sol photography



photo copyright del Sol Photography

2.22.2009

Confession


I personalized my tank top. Well, not altogether personalized, but I did stick the word "Bride" on the darn thing last night, all the while feeling a little silly and a little excited as well. I still have no idea what to do with the girls' tanks, but hopefully this is a step in the right direction! I did find very similar rhinestone stickers that say "fabulous" so perhaps that is the way to go, as opposed to writing Matron of Honor on two of them, and Bridesmaid on the other two. Hmm. Ideas? Anyone?

Invitation Compilation










Determining that I was not very interested in cleaning the house yesterday, I instead decided to spend some time cutting, gluing, inserting, sticking, folding, and generally preparing our wedding invitations to be mailed. Although the traditional timeline for a mailed invitation is somewhere between 2-3 months prior to the wedding date, destination weddings have their own little set of rules - most of which are made up as you go along. In an effort to ensure that any and all people who would be interested in attending our wedding will have ample time to procure well-priced flights and room reservations, we will be sending our invitations out 5 months in advance of our wedding date (I think that puts us at March 8th for a mail date).

Here are a few pictures of the finished product - including the packing list that we'll place inside the belly band behind the invitation. I'm very pleased with how it came out - and after 3 hours with a tweezer and those sticky rhinestones...I wasn't certain I would be able to say that! I am also happy to report that we will be e-mailing invitations where possible, to cut down on our use of paper, envelopes, etc. and generally assist the environment. It's a small effort but every little bit can count.

OOT progress

The OOT bags (or oooot bags, as the FI calls them) have begun to expand nicely in the past week. I was able to procure the most adorable playing cards (in their own little cases) at Michaels craft store for just $1 each, so for now, we have playing cards, and Spanish for Dummies. I am hoping that I will be able to order a few of the other items online soon.


Does anyone have ideas about items that we should consider including- that were not listed before? We have talked about having something in there that will surprise and make guests feel truly special and appreciated (not that the other stuff does not, but we are open to suggestion).


Oh! And I found an excellent template for covering rolls of Life Savers with a personalized label, so I think we'll do that instead of mint tins (far more cost-effective but just as cute).


2.14.2009

Favors: Check

The latest news on the wedding front is that I finally broke down and ordered the darn maracas that I have wanted for a few months now. They arrived yesterday(in a huge box...how the heck are we going to get these to Mexico?! More on that later...), and we think they are perfect! I was a little bummed at first that we could not order specific colors, but I think that the multi-colored feel will actually be better table-candy than uniform maracas. So you can see, there are 6 colors total, and I ordered 48 of these babies. We are going to place a favor tag on each one, tied with some kind of ribbon or raffia, and place them on the reception tables. The favor tag will say something like "Shake This for a Kiss", and we hope to tie it in with the table numbers that will list things that the guests can do to get a kiss from the bride and groom. We completely stole this idea from a number of other sources (can't credit them all) that suggested placing instructions for kiss-getting on the Menu cards, Place cards, or table numbers. We've had a few ideas, such as "Stand up and sing a song with the word 'love' in it, shaking your maracas to the beat." I'll post more on that later, but for now, check out the pictures!


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I bought the maracas from Windy City Novelties. Shipping was fast and service was good - packaging was nicely done too.

2.09.2009

Invitations and Wrap-around Labels

Our invitations arrived! And we like them! Hooray!

Ok enough excitement. Let's talk about the fact that I have horrible, terrible, not-to-be-trusted penmanship. And the fact that the FI actually addressed all of the Save the Dates because of this fact. In essence, I am either going to have to pay someone to address our invitations, or break down and figure out a way to print them onto a label that does not appear cheap, pointless, or lazy. I came across the idea of wraparound address labels (somewhere on Martha Stewart's site I believe) and thought, what a great plan! Purposeful yet elegant. Only problem was, all of the do-it-yourselfers were gluing these babies onto their envelopes...too risky for me. With my luck, I would choose the wrong glue and they would all fall off before reaching their final destinations.

So upon a whim, I did some Google searching, and sure enough stumbled across some print-your-own stickers that are 8'' x 2'' and positively perfect for this DIY project! (It says the labels are for water bottles...shhh...). Here are a few visuals of this crazy project, with just plain old paper where the stickers will be, to give you an idea. I'm very excited to add this to the 'belly band' idea (burlap paper around the center of the invitation, not the metallic stuff you see in the pic, tied with raffia) and think it will soup up our otherwise plain invites.

2.08.2009

OOT Bags: The List

<--Example OOT Bag Contents

So far, I have accumulated exactly 1 item for our OOT bags. Ugh. However, I have accumulated a variety of ideas for what WILL go into these things, and I may have even found the BAGS to put the stuff in!

IF you are coming to the wedding and wish to be completely surprised, do not read any further! (this list isn't final of course, but I don't want to deprive anyone of a surprising incident, hee hee)








First, the list of stuff:
  • 1 Spanish for Dummies pocket edition
  • 1 pack of playing cards (white with blue, red, green, yellow I think)
  • 1 small bottle of aloe vera gel
  • 1 book of Sudoku puzzles
  • 1 mini beach ball (for the guys)
  • 2 palm tree pens
  • 1 first aid kit (bandaids, alcohol wipes, pepto bismol, advil)
  • 2 tubes chapstick
  • 2 tins DIY personalized wedding mints
  • 2 Stamped post cards
  • MAYBE 2 plastic personalized stadium cups (Mindy+Christopher, Mexico 08.08.09)
  • MAYBE Some type of snack or candy item
  • MAYBE Personalized Matchbooks
  • MAYBE travel candle for romance (beach balls for single men?)
  • DIY Welcome Letter/Thank you for coming
  • DIY Wedding Itinerary
  • DIY Things to Do On and Off the Resort guide
Next, the bag to put the stuff in - right now I'm torn between these two bags, and will likely go with a natural or blue color in the end:

http://www.papermart.com/templates/73-1-01.htm#GO_73101

http://www.papermart.com/templates/73-1-21.htm#GO_73121

My main wish is that all of the things that we give to guests are usable in some way and won't just be discarded or left in the room because they are too bulky or stupid to be brought home. Feedback? Ideas? Which bag do you like?

2.03.2009

Bridesmaid Dresses are In!




It is a very exciting week here on the wedding planning front. Not only do our wedding invitations arrive in the mail tomorrow (!), but all bridesmaids should have their dresses by the end of the week. Hooray! And one of them was kind enough to take a few pics so I can show the world the gorgeousness of this dress. I'm really excited about the colors, so vibrant and tropical. Next we'll have to pick out some shoes and jewelry, but there is still a bit of time for that. All I can say is that my bridesmaids are going to be smoking hawt (and hopefully keep cool in the warm Mexican August evening). Hopefully I'll get some more pics from the other ladies as well and I can get a real photo album happening up here. Thanks to Dana for the early pics!!